January 6, 2010

Our Father in Heaven, who understood loss in the giving of your Son; give rest to the caregivers, comfort those who grieve, and grant life to those who have given theirs in the service of others. Give us joy for mourning; in the name of your beloved Son through whom we ask expecting and believing. Amen.

January 5, 2010

O Merciful Father, who in your wisdom chose a seemingly ordinary young girl to be the mother of the ultimate gifted child; have mercy on us. Strengthen those of us who have gifted children. Grant us wisdom when our kids try to outsmart us. Give us courage to stand up for them when others do not understand their special needs. Help us to remember that they are still children, too, as we are yours; in the name of your beloved Son through whom we ask expecting and believing. Amen.

January 4, 2010

Almighty God who knows and cares about our desires, our dreams, and our fears; make your desires our desires, your dreams our dreams, and thereby relive our fears; this we ask through our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom with You, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, be all honor and glory, now and forever. Amen

January 3, 2010

Almighty God who for our sake became flesh and suffered; open our eyes and hearts to the suffering in the world around us, that as we share the burdens of our brothers and sisters, they may also share in your mercy and grace; this we ask through our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom with You, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, be all honor and glory, now and forever. Amen

January 2, 2010

O Lord God who always hears us when we cry out; give us the voice to speak for others that no one might feel silent or unheard; this we ask through our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom with You, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, be all honor and glory, now and forever. Amen

January 1, 2010

Almighty God, who came down the Light of Truth to shine into our darkness; dispel, we pray the darkness that lurks in each of us, the sadness that surrounds us, and the grimness of spiritual winter that comes to us by season so that as we see with the New Year, we can see the dawn of a new day and the grace that comes with second chances; through our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom with You, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, be all honor and glory, now and forever. Amen

Prayer for the Old Year

Almighty God, whose mercy never changes and who is always faithful to lift our spiritual burdens; show your children how to share that love so those who do not know You might see a glimpse of the love, mercy, and rest that is possible to receive when we lay down our old lives and look toward You; through our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom with You, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, be all honor and glory, now and forever. Amen.

When In Our Music

"The best liturgical, musical, and relational moments are those when it all comes together - when we catch a glimpse of both the vastness of God and of our own smallness; when we sense the universality of God's salvation yet treasure our personal inheritance; when we feel more alive than ever before, yet, that it "matters not whether we live or die." Why do we settle for the dull and pedestrian when we are meant for so muc more? Because we must learn that there is so much more - taught by the Holy Spirit, encouraged by our leaders and convinced by our own experience and reflection"

From Preaching to the Choir by Wayne L. Wold

Pray for me as I try to sort out what God intends me to do with what he has given.

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When In Our Music God is Glorified by Fred Pratt Green

When in our music God is glorified
And adoration leaves no room for pride
It is as though the whole creation cried
Alleluia!

How often, making music, we have found
A new dimension in the world of sound
As worship moved us to a more profound
Alleluia!

So has the Church in liturgy and song
In faith and love through centuries of wrong
Borne witness to the truth in every tongue
Alleluia!

Let every instrument be tuned for praise!
Let all rejoice who have a voice to raise!
And may God give us faith to sing always:
Alleluia! Amen!

Singing Alleluia at the Grave

OK, so I've thought it's really strange that the Episcopal Church has such a rich reputation and heritage of fine, high-church music, but has so very few resources for congregation. I mean there's no music publishing house except for the hymnals and supplements, no instruction, or training to raise up musicians. But we have the Book of Common Prayer, and that book directs our worship. I only recently realized how much the liturgy of the church has become imprinted on my soul.

An Episcopal funeral is an Easter liturgy. It's a "smells and bells" service - a celebration of the promise of our own resurrection. It can be somber, but as Episcopalians are known for a quirky sense of what is reverent and what is not, they can be, well, interesting. In Lent, all the Alleluias are removed from the liturgy. Lent is a period of waiting and anticipation. Holy Week is filled with remembrances of the impending crucifixion and the three days that God the Son was dead. And with Easter, the return of the Savior is celebrated in grand fashion. We get extra Alleluias to make up for the ones we missed. The cry at the end of the service is "Thanks Be To God. Alleluia!! Alleluia!!"

My Aunt Connie died last month, and her funeral was a nice celebration. It was a good Baptist service with some of her favorite music, and the plan of salvation all laid out for everyone who was there. The occasion was sad, but the service was not. It was a celebration of her life in the service of her family and her church. All the usual word of comfort were there, but for me, something was missing. I needed the liturgy that gives me words when I have no words. I needed the ebb and flow, the give and take, the call and response that is in our liturgy. I needed the alleluias at the grave.

I was thinking these things during the service and listening to the couple who provided the special music singing,"Just A Closer Walk With Thee", and I began to listen around me. I could hear an occasional sniffle, but I heard more than that. I began to hear people humming along softly and singing in snatches very quietly. And I realized that what I had been thinking about for weeks was true.

We all have liturgy. In non-liturgical churches, music and song become liturgy. The hymnal becomes the prayer book. I have often laughed as I sang my way through the 1956 Ed. of the Baptist Hymnal that I was praying my way through the hymnal, but I was being honest. In that simple connection to "Just A Closer Walk", the Baptists and Methodists around me were joined in a simple ritual that reflected the truth of God. It provided words when there were none.

And while it may not have been the words, "All of us go down to the dust;' yet even at the grave we make our song: Alleluia, alleluia, Alleluia." It was liturgy nontheless. And I was comforted.

Thanks be to God. Alleluia. Alleluia.

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Just A Closer Walk With Thee - unknown

I am weak, but Thou art strong;
Jesus, keep me from all wrong;
I’ll be satisfied as long
As I walk, let me walk close to Thee.

Refrain

Just a closer walk with Thee,
Grant it, Jesus, is my plea,
Daily walking close to Thee,
Let it be, dear Lord, let it be.

Through this world of toil and snares,
If I falter, Lord, who cares?
Who with me my burden shares?
None but Thee, dear Lord, none but Thee.

Refrain

When my feeble life is o’er,
Time for me will be no more;
Guide me gently, safely o’er
To Thy kingdom shore, to Thy shore.

Refrain

Politics As Usual

I'll admit it. I've already voted, and I'm really tired of the whole thing.

And as tired as I am of the constant election coverage, the promises that will never be kept, the gut-wrenching fear for the country my ancestors came here to build, something else bothers me more than all this.

I think what has caused me the most distress throughout this election is the amount of venom coming from Christians on both sides of the political spectrum. It breaks my heart when I hear people who I respect or love (or both) spewing malicious falsehoods and judging the validity of another person's relationship with God based on their political views. When we do that we're not acting like citizens of God's kingdom. We're down in the muck and certainly not showing the love of God. We're not being his ambassadors in this broken world. We're failing in our job to others the One who is The Way, The Truth, and The Life.

And when it comes down to it. We know that neither candidate can truly fix our broken and hurting world.

Jesus can.

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What This World Needs
by Casting Crowns 2008 From The Altar and The Door

What this world needs is not
Another one hit wonder with an axe to grind
Another two bit politician peddling lies
Another three ring circus society

What this world needs in not
Another sign waving super saint that's better than you
Another ear pleasing candy man afraid of the truth
Another prophet in an Armani suit

What this world needs is
A Savior who will rescue
A Spirit who will lead
A Father who will love them in their time of need
A Savior who will rescue
A Spirit who will lead
A Father who will love
That's what this world needs

What this world needs is
For us to care more about the inside than the outside
Have we become so blind that we can't see
God's gotta change her heart before He changes her shirt
What this world needs is
For us to stop hiding behind our relevance
Blending in so well that people can't see the difference
And it's the difference that sets the world free

What this world needs is
A Savior who will rescue
A Spirit who will lead
A Father who will love them in their time of need
A Savior who will rescue
A Spirit who will lead
A Father who will love
That's what this world needs

[spoken]
People aren't confused by the gospel
They're confused by us
Jesus is the only way to God
But we are not the only way to Jesus
This world doesn't need my tie, or my hoodie
My denomination or my translation of the Bible
They just need Jesus
We can be passionate about what we believe
But we can't strap ourselves to the Gospel
Cause we're slowing it down
Jesus is going to save the world
But maybe the best thing we can do
Is just get out of the way

What this world needs is
A Savior who will rescue
A Spirit who will lead
A Father who will love them in their time of need
A Savior who will rescue
A Spirit who will lead
A Father who will love
That's what this world needs

Jesus is our Saviour
That's what this world needs
Father's arms around you
That's what this world needs
That's what this world needs

Ancient Words

I've been thinking about religious tradition and the church. Being raised in a nonliturgical church, I was not raised to reverence what most people recognize as religious traditions. After all, it is not the outward trappings of religion that define my relationship with my Maker, but the state of my heart. I still believe that.

But throwing away all religious tradition is tragic.

I am a firm believer in the power of words to change people and situations. The words we choose and how we use them either build or destroy, strengthen or undermine. I've been thinking about this more for some reason lately in relation to religious history and tradition.

Lynn DeShazo wrote a beautiful hymn several years ago called "Ancient Words" and I guess it's been driving this meditation. It's about the power of faith expressed in words and the words we use to pass faith down.

I began thinking about the Ancient Words of our faith through the ages that express my faith. Some of them are directly biblical, some are extrabiblical, but still important to my faith

Words like:

- In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.

- I AM that I AM

- The Lord is My Shepherd, I shall want for nothing.

- You shall have no other gods before Me.

- As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.

- Shema Yisrael, Adonai Elohenu, Adonai Echad. (Hear O Israel, The Lord is God, the Lord is One)

- Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord

- We believe in one God, the Father Almighty, Maker of heaven and earth, of all things seen and unseen...

- Almighty God, to you all hearts are open and all desires are known, and from you no secrets are hid

- I go to prepare a place for you, and if I go, I will return and receive you unto myself that where I am you may be also.

- Neither do I condemn thee, go and sin no more.

- And I bring you good tidings of great joy.

- Our Father who art in heaven.

- Miserere Nobis. Have mercy on us.

- He is not here. He is risen.

- It is right to give Him thanks and praise.

- Alleluia! Go in peace to love and serve the Lord. Thanks be to God. Alleluia!

There are many others.

But how much more important is it that we not only treasure them for ourselves, but that we share the Ancient Words with others. It is not enough that we know them, but that we teach them and share their power.

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Ancient Words

Holy words long preserved
For our walk in this world
They resound with God's own heart
O let the ancient words impart

Words of life, words of hope
Give us strength, help us cope
In this world, where'er we roam
Ancient words will guide us home

Chorus:
Ancient words, ever true
Changing me and changing you
We have come with open hearts
O let the ancient words impart

Holy words of our faith
Handed down to this age
Came to us through sacrifice
O heed the faithful words of Christ!

Martyrs' blood stains each page
They have died for this faith
Hear them cry through the years,
"Heed these words and hold them dear!"

Words and music by Lynn DeShazo
© 2001 Integrity's Hosanna! Music

God's instruments

An instrument is useful only if it"s in the right shape. A dull ax or a bent screwdriver needs attention, and so do we. A good blacksmith keeps his tools in shape. So does God. Should God place you on his anvil, be thankful. It means he thinks you"re still worth reshaping.
- Max Lucado, from On the Anvil (1983)

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Prayers of Steel by Carl Sandburg 1918


LAY me on an anvil, O God.
Beat me and hammer me into a crowbar.
Let me pry loose old walls.
Let me lift and loosen old foundations.


Lay me on an anvil, O God.
Beat me and hammer me into a steel spike.
Drive me into the girders that hold a skyscraper together.
Take red-hot rivets and fasten me into the central girders.
Let me be the great nail holding a skyscraper through blue nights into white stars.

Set Apart

In the liturgical churches, we think about the bread and wine that is blessed and sanctified as bringing God's grace into our beings, but in the process of watching the Liturgy of the Table, I see other truths as well.

My daughter, Rachel, loves serving at the altar at church. I watch her as she approaches her service, whether as an acolyte/torchbearer, or as crucifer helping the deacon set the table for communion. She is so attentive to her tasks and duly reverent and respectful. Those items, utensils, and vessels, have been blessed, prayed over, and set aside for a holy task. In church language, they have been sanctified - or set apart for a holy purpose. They may not be perfect, but they are treated with care and respect because they are set aside for use in God's work. We don't think they contain any magical powers, but they are not to be treated lightly. She is so gentle with the items as she sets them into place or presents them to the person using them.

As I was watching her, I thought how we should be treating each other with the even more gentleness and respect than we approach sacred objects.

As God's children, we are also set aside for God's purposes. But how often do we treat each other in ways that are less than respectful? Should I not care as gently for you and treat you as tenderly as the women who tend so carefully to the altar linens and flowers? How much more precious are we to Him than the objects in His House?

Whether or not a person is living into God's purpose for him does not diminish the fact that each of God's children has been appointed for a holy purpose.

Our Baptismal vows include "will you seek and serve Christ in all persons, loving your neighbor as yourself". That seeking and serving is part of what we do because we recognize that we have been set aside to do the work of the Savior. Too often, we behave as if we are the ones who should be served. It is too easy to become puffed up with our own sanctificaton and forget that we are not set apart for our own sake, but for the purpose of bridging the gap in order to bring Christ's love to our suffering world.

Lord, help me to treat others as holy vessels, and to behave as one with a holy purpose.

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Take My Life, and Let It Be
by Frances Havergal 1874

Take my life, and let it be consecrated, Lord, to Thee.
Take my moments and my days; let them flow in ceaseless praise.
Take my hands, and let them move at the impulse of Thy love.
Take my feet, and let them be swift and beautiful for Thee.

Take my voice, and let me sing always, only, for my King.
Take my lips, and let them be filled with messages from Thee.
Take my silver and my gold; not a mite would I withhold.
Take my intellect, and use every power as Thou shalt choose.

Take my will, and make it Thine; it shall be no longer mine.
Take my heart, it is Thine own; it shall be Thy royal throne.
Take my love, my Lord, I pour at Thy feet its treasure store.
Take myself, and I will be ever, only, all for Thee.

Past Time for a Pit Stop

It has been a very long time since I've written - too long. And of course, it's not because I haven't been doing stuff; it's because I haven't done or thought much that needed to be said out loud.

Just after my last blog entry, we began homeschooling our son, David, a 10th grader through the University of Nebraska's Independent Study High School. He has a rare medical condition that causes him to miss a lot of school and it put him in conflict with a teacher who asserted that he did not "deserve" a spot in an honors classroom because of his attendance. I thought it couldn't be that hard. He's an extraordinarily bright young man. Unfortunately for David, it took until December for us to realize he's primarily an auditory learner and to figure out how to "do school" in a way that helped him to learn. It was January before he began to experience for himself a measure of success. He's in an accredited program and he actually has teachers who hand-grade written papers - so it's not just left to me to decide if he's learned material and met a standard. Anyway, now it's July, and we're basically in the 7th month of our school year because we really didn't get going well until January.

We also had a long Advent season of music followed by a very early Lent and Easter, so there was a lot of music to get ready and finish. We went to DC for a week in March, and any mother out there knows what that means. I'm still working 3 days a week and volunteering to be called off when the schedule is low so that David and I can have extra school days together. David finished his Eagle Scout requirements and we had a big ceremony and party in February. We've got guys coming to paint, tile, and otherwise maintain the house doing things I've always taken care of because I don't have time any more. Rachel (who has a great deal of "girl drama") is going to karate 3-4 times a week trying to get ready to test for her black belt in two weeks and to go to a tournament next weekend. I'm trying to carve out Rachel and Mom time so that she doesn't feel neglected because I have to have so much 1-on-1 time with David doing school. She's determined to earn her Silver Award for Girl Scouts and I really do want to help her reach her goal, too.

And most definitely and certainly not least, Kenny needs my time as well.

I end up staying up until midnight doing laundry, paying bills, studying the next Geometry, or French, or 11th grade English Literature lesson and getting up early to have another go at making it through the day. Sometimes I just end up staring blankly at the dog because there's so much stuff to do that I can't get started on any of it.

Last week's gospel reading has been with me all week. "Come to me, all you who are weary and heavy laden, and I will give you rest."

I'm weary and heaven laden. I need rest. And it will have to be a divine intervention, because nothing in my life is going to change. No obligations are going away. No cavalry is coming. No wind is blowing Mary Poppins my way.

I've begun to think of this gospel reading in a different way. As much as I would really like to hole up alone in a B&B for a week to eat bonbons, read Clive Cussler novels, and sleep late, that's about as likely as the Nanny scenario. I really doubt that Jesus was talking about giving anybody the day off - other than the usual Sabbath. I think it has to be a rest from the spiritual struggles.

It made me think about something while I was watching racing this week. Yes, I confess that I love racing - NASCAR, IndyCars, Formula One, NHRA, motorcycles. It doesn't matter. I'll watch anything go fast and turn left (and sometimes right). For track racing, there are rules about when you can and can not make a pit stop. Often when to come in to the pit it is a strategic move made by the racing team. When it is coming down to the end of a close race, teams try to estimate how much fuel is needed to finish the laps and whether or not the tires have enough rubber left. If they get it right, it can help a driver make it across the line first. If they get it wrong, the car may be too heavy from too much fuel, or may run out of fuel before the end and be out of the race altogether. The drivers and their teams are in constant communication to try to make the best call.

Sometimes a spiritual pit stop is in order. And of course, I don't always make it. Instead of paying attention to the still, small voice, I tell myself that I can go a little further; I can make it.

And really, I can't. I end up out of spiritual fuel, coasting, and watching the impending wreckage barreling towards me from behind.

All I can do is to depend on Jesus' promise that He would provide Rest.

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Jesus, Take the Wheel
as recorded by Carrie Underwood

She was driving last Friday on her way to Cincinnati
On a snow white Christmas Eve
Going home to see her Mama and her Daddy with the baby in the backseat
Fifty miles to go and she was running low on faith and gasoline
It would been a long hard year
She had a lot on her mind and she didn't pay attention
She was going way to fast
Before she knew it she was spinning on a thin black sheet of glass
She saw both their lives flash before her eyes
She didn't even have time to cry
She was so scared
She threw her hands up in the air

Jesus take the wheel
Take it from my hands
Cause I can't do this all on my own
I'm letting go
So give me one more chance
To save me from this road I'm on
Jesus take the wheel

It was still getting colder when she made it to the shoulder
And the car came to a stop
She cried when she saw that baby in the backseat sleeping like a rock
And for the first time in a long time
She bowed her head to pray
She said I'm sorry for the way
I've been living my life
I know I've got to change
So from now on tonight

Jesus take the wheel
Take it from my hands
Cause I can't do this all my own
I'm letting go
So give me one more chance
To save me from this road I'm on

Oh, Jesus take the wheel
Oh, I'm letting go
So give me one more chance
Save me from this road I'm on
From this road I'm on
Jesus take the wheel

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© MUSIC OF WINDSWEPT
© NO SUCH MUSIC
© PASSING STRANGER MUSIC
© SONGS OF COMBUSTION MUSIC
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The Fourth Day

As Cursillo ends, they begin to talk about the Fourth Day. You see, Cursillo is a retreat that lasts 3 days, and the Fourth Day is that part of your life that you step into when Cursillo is over. I've done a lot of thinking about what that means.

Cursillo is a coccoon. From the moment you arrive, you are served for, loved, protected, and nurtured in body, soul, and spirit.

For me, it began when I had to get into someone else's car for the ride up there. I had to separate myself from even my car (which is not easy). There was no escape route for me. But it was also a great transition. It gave me time to wind down my thoughts of home and spend a few moments thinking about the adventure ahead.

Conversely, on the way back after such a mountaintop experience, it allowed me a few moments to think transition back to "the real world" and all the responsibilities awaiting me.

So while I had Monday off from work, there was still laundry, and school, and kids, bills to be paid, and the dog to be picked up from the kennel, and the Amish Friendship Bread that had to be baked before it exploded in the kitchen. And today was back to work.

So now comes the hard part - living out my renewed committment.

We can always pretend to be perfect Christians. And we would always be wrong.

We should strive to live into the lives that God has for us, but the reality is that our Christian lives are a continuum. We often spend more time looking towards the altar than on our knees in front of it.

God help us to stay at the altar, and not outside the door.

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Somewhere In The Middle by Casting Crowns 2007

Somewhere between the hot and the cold
Somewhere between the new and the old
Somewhere between who I am and who I used to be
Somewhere in the middle, You'll find me

Somewhere between the wrong and the right
Somewhere between the darkness and the light
Somewhere between who I was and who You're making me
Somewhere in the middle, You'll find me

Just how close can I get, Lord, to my surrender
Without losing all control

Fearless warriors in a picket fence,
reckless abandon wrapped in common sense
Deep water faith in the shallow end
and we are caught in the middle
With eyes wide open to the differences,
the God we want and the God who is
But will we trade our dreams for His
Or are we caught in the middle

Somewhere between my heart and my hands
Somewhere between my faith and my plans
Somewhere between the safety of the boat and the crashing waves

Somewhere between a whisper and a roar
Somewhere between the altar and the door
Somewhere between contented peace and always wanting more
Somewhere in the middle You'll find me

Just how close can I get, Lord, to my surrender
without losing all control

Fearless warriors in a picket fence,
reckless abandon wrapped in common sense
Deep water faith in the shallow end
and we are caught in the middle
With eyes wide open to the differences,
the God we want and the God who is
But will we trade our dreams for His
or are we caught in the middle

Lord, I feel You in this place and I know You're by my side
Loving me even on these nights when I'm caught in the middle

Beggar Lice and other sticky situations

I don't know what people in other places call them, but here in South Georgia, we call them beggar lice. The inventors of Velcro must have had these things in mind.

These things are little tiny seed pods that stick onto everything they touch. They aren't prickly like sand spurs, but they are invasive weeds and easily contaminate other areas.

Thursday night, they were God's object lesson for me.

I spent the last weekend at Cursillo#111. For those of you who don't know, Cursillo is a short intensive course in Christianity. It is more of an experience than an event, and if you ever have the opportunity to go, take it. Thursday evening was the first night of the retreat and we talked about sin and confession. I sat there thinking that I don't really have anything to drag myself to confession for (or what the Episcopal Church calls the Rite of the Reconciliation of a Penitent). I wasn't feeling smug or anything, not holier-than-thou, just "prayed up". My Baptist friends and readers know what I mean.

After the completion of Compline (the last evening service), Kenny and I walked back through the darkness lit by our flashlight. He went to his room and I went to mine.

As I was getting ready for bed, I saw them - beggar lice - on the hem of my jeans. There's only one way to get rid of them. You have to pick each one off by hand. You can't shake them off and get rid of them at once. Each one requires your attention. They can't hurt you, but if you take one of them home, they'll take over your whole yard.

How often do "little sins" fill up and ruin our lives? How many times have we called ourselves "confident" when really we were prideful? How about "self-assured" when really we were arrogant? How often has "me time" really been about selfishness and not about nurturing?

How many of these little things are we dragging though our lives spreading the infestation as we go?

As I stood at the bathroom sink picking the beggar lice off my pants, I though about how much it was like Confession. It's easier to ask forgiveness for infractions of the "Big 10" - they are more obvious and painful. But how often do we take the time to sit down and root out the other sins.

One of the prayers for after Communion, includes the line:

And Father, send us out to do the work you have given us to do (BCP p 366)

Maybe, part of that work is getting rid of our own spiritual beggar lice.


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Whiter Than Snow (1872 by James Nicholson, Music by William G. Fischer)
http://www.cyberhymnal.org/htm/w/h/i/whiterts.htm

Lord Jesus, I long to be perfectly whole;
I want Thee forever to live in my soul.
Break down every idol, cast out every foe;
Now wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.

Refrain
Whiter than snow, yes, whiter than snow.
Now wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.

Lord Jesus, let nothing unholy remain,
Apply Thine own blood and extract ev’ry stain;
To get this blest cleansing, I all things forego—
Now wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.

Refrain

Lord Jesus, look down from Thy throne in the skies,
And help me to make a complete sacrifice.
I give up myself, and whatever I know,
Now wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.

Refrain

Lord Jesus, for this I most humbly entreat,
I wait, blessèd Lord, at Thy crucified feet.
By faith, for my cleansing, I see Thy blood flow,
Now wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.

Refrain

Lord Jesus, Thou seest I patiently wait,
Come now, and within me a new heart create;
To those who have sought Thee, Thou never saidst “No,”
Now wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.

Refrain

The blessing by faith, I receive from above;
O glory! my soul is made perfect in love;
My prayer has prevailed, and this moment I know,
The blood is applied, I am whiter than snow.

Refrain

The Measure of a Man

My son, a 15-year old soon-to-be Eagle Scout, is wiser than most adults sometimes. While listening to an NPR piece about the effect the Michael Vick scandal will have on the Falcons team, he told his Dad, "They might not find a better quarterback, but they can find a better man."

You see, David is surrounded by men who live their lives honorably. He has seen positive examples of manhood.

My husband's late father was one of them. He was 20-year Navy man who loved his family more than anything else. He had a sharp temper and a wicked sense of humor. He was occasionally very rough around the edges, and softened by the love and influence of Kenny's mother. He loved being a police officer, but took a job at the post office because he needed to better support his family. He was a man who always tried to do the right thing regardless of the cost or how much easier the wrong thing would have been. He was a man who was changed for the better because of the presence of God in his life.

My Dad is a minister. He was a supervisor in the electrical department at the paper mill to pay the bills, but "minister" defines who he is. He is a gentle soul, kind, compassionate, unwavering in his faith, wise, soft-spoken. I can't tell you how many people I've met, who say, "Yes, I know your Dad. He is such a good man." He lives his life in service to others and to God.

There are others in David's life - scoutmasters, clergy members, teachers, friends - but most of all, David watches his Dad. He sees Kenny's faithfulness to our family and to his faith. He sees Kenny's stubborn refusal to compromise on issues of importance. He sees Kenny lovingly indulge my whims and eccentricities. He is able to articulate his beliefs, and often has discussions with others about what we believe.

I am fortunate enough to now have been married half my life to my best friend. Twenty years ago today, I vowed to submit myself unto him as unto the Lord, and he promised to love me as Christ loves the church and give his life for me. Although I have not always managed my part well, I have never regretted it.

Happy Anniversary, Kenny!

anything but typical



A Few Good Men by Bill Gaither


What this dying world could use is a willing Man of God
Who dares to go against the grain and works without applause;
A man who'll raise the shield of Faith, protecting what is pure;
Whose love is tough and gentle; a man whose word is sure.

God doesn't need an Orator who knows what just to say;
He doesn't need authorities to reason Him away;
He doesn't need an army to guarantee a win;
He just needs a Few Good Men.

Men full of Compassion, who Laugh and Love and Cry-
Men who'll face Eternity and aren't afraid to die-
Men who'll fight for Freedom and Honor once again-
He just needs a Few Good Men.

He calls the broken derelict whose life has been renewed;
He calls the one who has the strength to stand up for the Truth.
Enlistment lines are open and He wants you to come in-
He just needs a Few Good Men.

Men full of Compassion, who Laugh and Love and Cry-
Men who'll face Eternity and aren't afraid to die-
Men who'll fight for Freedom and Honor once again-
He just needs a Few Good Men.

Staring into the Sun

From Simply Christian by N.T. Wright:

A great many arguments about God - God's existence, God's nature, God's actions in the world - run the risk of being like pointing a flashlight toward the sky to see if the sun is shining. It is all too easy to make the mistake of speaking and thinking as though God (if there is a God) might be a being, an entity, within our world, accessible to our interested study in the same sort of way we might study music or mathematics, open to our investigation by the same sort of techniques we use for objects and entities within our world....The difficulty is that speaking of God in anything like the Christian sense is like staring into the sun. It's dazzling. It's easier, actually, to look away from the sun itself and to enjoy the fact that, once it's well and truly risen, you can see everything else clearly.

I almost killed a guy yesterday.

My car has a leak in one of the hoses in the power steering system, and I'd like to try not to burn out the pump before I can get it fixed. So I went down to the auto parts store to get some power steering fluid.

That's where I almost killed a man.

Here's how it went.

I went in and asked the young man behind the counter, told him that I needed power steering fluid for my 2004 Kia, and asked him where I could find it.

At that point the young man took his life in his hands and said,"Are you sure that's what you want? What did your husband ask you to get?"

I took a deep breath, tried not to jump across the counter and gouge out his eyes, and said very quietly, "My husband asked for a loaf of bread and a gallon of milk, but what I need is power steering fluid. Now, just point."

Now, my husband is a smart man, and can see a leak in a hose just as well as I can. But that's just it. I CAN see gunk dripping out of the car, and yes, I do know what a power steering pump looks like. The little fluid level chamber is very clearly marked on my car, so I can figure out for myself if the level is low. A Y-chromosome is not necessary to open the hood of the car and check these things. Kenny was not home when I noticed the problem and I did not feel any fear or trepidation about looking for the problem myself. And honestly, I probably would still first look for myself.

My Dad didn't raise me to avoid anything because of my gender. I have helped him shingle the roof and paint the workshop. I helped him do wiring in a house we lived in when I was a kid and helped him pull the transmission out of an old station wagon. He came over several years ago and helped me change out the power steering pump on a 1992 Jeep Cherokee. (See, I have power steering pump experience.) He and Mom always told me that being a girl didn't excuse me from anything. Femininity does not exclude intelligence and being ladylike does not demand dependence on others.

Paul said that in Christ there is no Jew or Greek, no male or female, that all are the same in Christ. No one is higher or more valuable than the other. And while we may all have different jobs, strengths, weaknesses, and purposes to fulfill, God made us all in His image. While some may believe that my being female disqualifies me from serving in particular roles in the church, I disagree. I believe that the problems occur (1)when women fail to do what God tells us to do, and (2)when others prohibit or discourage us from doing as God has commanded because of gender.

After all, to whom must I give my answer for my obedience - God or man?

Preach the gospel to all the world, and if necessary, use words - St. Francis of Assisi

I am always amazed at how God works stuff out, and has different people all thinking about the same stuff. Last week, we finished a book study on St. Benedict's Toolbox by Jane Tomaine. Benedict was an advocate, not so much of cloistering, but of monastic rule "in order to help the monastic community that he founded to better love God, self and each other by providing some guidelines on how to live a spiritual life in community." For most of us, that is relevant as a recommendation to think clearly about the guiding principles of our lives and making a conscious effort as to how we should live as disciples of Christ.

Now, I have to admit, I wasn't working on that book, but reading Simply Christian. In it, Bishop Wright talks about the fact that God's realm and our realm are separated by a spiritual veil, but overlap and interlock and we are, in fact, those points of connection, bringing the presence of God with us as we are walking, living, moving Temples of God. We live in the place between this broken creation and the Living God who loved us and it so much that He launched a rescue operation to save it and us. That was Christ's job, and as His emissaries in our own generation, it is ours as well. Jesus said, "When you have seen me, you have seen the Father." He also said that his disciples would do what he has done and even greater. That leaves me feeling quite the responsibility and quite a lot to live up to.

Then this weekend's epistle reading was Galatians 5:1, 13-25. You know, the whole Fruit of the Spirit list.

Sometimes, in a world full of sarcasm and cynicism, it's really hard to remember to respond with Christ's mind and not my own mouth, and to remember that I may be the only representative from God with whom someone may interact.

Am I behaving in a way that points to The Way, The Truth, and The Life?


Live the Life by Michael W. Smith

Were passengers aboard the train
Silent little lambs amidst the pain
Thats no longer good enough
And when its time to speak our faith
We use a language no one can explain
Thats no longer good enough

And God knows its a shame
As we look to pass the flame
We are not the worthy bearers of his name

Chorus:
For the world to know the truth
There can be no greater proof
Than to live the life, live the life
Theres no love thats quite as pure
Theres no pain we can't endure
If we live the life, live the life
Be a light for all to see
For every act of love will set you free

Theres something beautiful and bold
The power of a million human souls
Come together as one
And each in turn goes out to lead
Another by his word, his love, his deed
Now the circle is done

It all comes back to one
For it is he and he alone
Who has lived the only perfect life weve known

For the world to know the truth
There can be no greater proof
Than to live the life, live the life
Theres no love thats quite as pure
Theres no pain we cant endure
If we live the life, live the life
Be a light for all to see
For every act of love will set you free